6 Keys To Karmic Relationships - Michele Knight
Karma by definition means dysfunction; ego's interference in an other wise perfect system. Life on Earth is a lesson in the navigation of ego's. There are only a few or only one person who makes us feel like we talk with our twin flame. Spiritualists call that type of connection a karmic. Explore Miss Ivy's board "Karmic Relationships" on Pinterest. @dashaybrand @senshido.info Soulmate Meaning, Love Soulmate, Finding.
Karmic relationships are different from twin flame and soulmate relationships. In a spiritual context, karmic relationships are viewed from the lens of personal growth. Here are some of the signs of a karmic relationship. If you seem to be experiencing the same kinds of relationship problems, that is also a big red flag. Such relationships repeat the same patterns and remain stagnant, because the only way you can grow from them is by letting go. Karmic relationships do not respect healthy boundaries in their partners.
13 Signs You’re In What Is Known As A Karmic Relationship
They serve only their own self-interest and needs. They are the perfect template for forming abusive or co-dependent relationship complexes.
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While one person is very invested, the other person views it more as a convenience. They are characterized by highs and lows of passionate intensity.
One or both partners are more in love with the idea of love, based on superficial reasons such as good looks, popularity, social or professional status. They are obsessive and all about ownership of your partner. The other person becomes the center of your universe, and the main source of your happiness. You put them on a pedestal, and are unable to see their flaws. You think that you cannot live without this person, and feel like you both are somehow meant to be together.
You cannot fathom why it keeps failing, and you keep trying and hoping to get it right. They are extremely hard to resist, and keep drawing you in, until you learn what you need to from it.
There is an instant connection. Such relationships are marked by an immediate attraction. This person feels perfect to you. So from the loving actions of our spiritual guidance, we are put into situations with opportunities to experience and see life differently, as to have the choice to resolve the issue with forgiveness, and cycle out of anger and back into compassion.
To those of us who have awoken to this truth, are serious in the ways that understands the very real consequences of karma, and the conscious journey of returning home to The Loving God. Because only a guiltless mind can not suffer. The irony in it is they will get caught, and put in a tinny room then forced to look at the karma of it.
People kill because they are afraid of loosing something. When the irony of it is through that very act, they end-up loosing just what it is they were afraid of loosing in the first place. God-awareness is the balance every time.Karma and Karmic Relationships: Understanding Meaning & Purpose
Through self-awareness we choose self-love. A simple way to understand karma is to see life as one big classroom, where karma is both the teacher and the lesson. A life of empowerment or enlightenment requires us to show up in class, pay attention to the lesson, doing our inner work of slaying our emotional dragons; transforming all our fearful reactions into loving responses, and have presence of mind to allow that lesson to affect our life in such a profound way, to empower and enlighten our experiences.
As well as to empower the experiences of those around us.
When we allow another person to govern our own personal emotions, we call that karma. Bringing karma to completion does not mean ending the relationship, or that you fall out of love with them. It means transforming our awareness, and being responsible with our emotional reactions. So the other person is not responsible for making you happy, you are, and when you follow and stay in control of your own happiness, then your life is empowered.
For this to work for you, you have to truly be honest to yourself. That fear of losing something you. The bigger the fear the smaller the box in which I exist. All this because I allow ego to make my choices, and karma is the box and the wall.
Karma will always be present in the beginning of love or friendship, simply because that is the nature of duality. However it may start with karma, it can and often does lead into purpose, and those feelings of destiny when we allow the ego to fall away. So, can a karmic relationship work? Yes, if you have the courage to venture into the realm of the ego-less relationship. Because if we look at this head on, we will see karma as ego, so therefor every bit of your life is your responsibility to shift out of all egoic patterns.
The very minute you declare your relationship a disaster, is the moment you need to step out of it. Or back up, and look carefully at how you got there. To transform this disaster we have to look closely at the dysfunctions of our own ego.
Which is described on the page Boundaries and Personal Power. Couples who have a close bond are ones where their karma is also entwined. If you are actively working on your karmic issues, and the other is not. Then it will feel as though you are walking in deep sand up hill. This is where communication is so important. Which leads into the quiet waters of spiritual love, where support is granted for any direction you choose. Spiritual love is healed karma.
The ego-less relationship is the action from this field of spiritual love, and almost completely karma free. In the subject of relationships: She finds him more exciting than that of which she feels for her own unique and special self; she forgets herself, and he becomes her reason for existing. Karma can be harsh and karma can be gentle. We still have to be smart as to how much we allow them back into our scared space; we can have compassion for them while they are over there.
Bad karma comes as a sign when it becomes uncomfortable, and the interactions are no longer productive. So by practicing boundaries and personal power, this reduces the karmic connection quite a bit. Because so much of karma has to do with a lack of connection to our sense of good-will. I know this can be difficult to swallow. Just know that all love and hate relationships are moving in the direction through your personal growth for spiritual resolve.
On its way to wholeness towards the ego-less relationship, which in itself is spiritual love; mature love. This is the master design of the direction of life in any realm… To complete the cycles of incarnations and return home to The Loving God.
Karma comes in ways other than just relationships. All diseases like cancer are karmic. If you see yourself as the tree that cannot move and therefore are in an unavoidable situation, then simply become the tree and be present for the lesson. If we abuse someone [hard core abuse; physical sexualemotional, mental or spiritual abuse], we may come back, and or be on the receiving end of that abuse, in order to understand and come to the balance of compassion.
The way to shorten that experience is to connect to compassion through the art of forgiveness. Compassion for yourself for ending up in this situation, and compassion for them for helping you to connect to the need to find balance in yourself, no matter how harsh it may seem.
This does not mean that you stay in an abusive relationship. However, if you leave one abusive relationship, then find yourself in another one.
Then through forgiveness, healing both that which is given, and that which is received we are then able to step out of that hardship. Quantum Forgiveness To Your Self: I am spirit, my body is only an illusion, it has nothing to do with what I really am. You are spirit, whole and innocent, all is forgiven and released.
Repeat this as often as the feelings arise, in a way that brings you back to compassion, and or back to an emotional neutral space. The desire of having a relationship succeed comes because the attraction is So Great, and the experience can feel very powerful.
Then when our conscious understanding moves beyond a certain point, we can no longer go back to our old understanding. A meaningful relationship operates from the ego-less environment, it comes from love not fear.
Wanting a karmic relationship to work, is a bit like thinking you can be your authentic self, while in the presence of the most beautiful person in the world to you. You may for the first 10 minutes, although by the end of the day you will become someone else.
This nonalignment is deliberately designed by God to teach us non-attachment and impermanence by imperfection. Because in truth, only the God realm is perfectly permanent. There is the obvious, and then there are the finer details. Devotion as pure as it is, is still karma.
If we sacrifice ourselves for the devotion of others, we create self-karma. This is what imbalance between giving to others and giving to ourselves looks like. Even though the ego will insist that you are worth much less, and other people deserve more than you have. Our God-self is in fact in love with us, where the ego-self is not.
So in learning to think and feel with our hearts, keeps us connected to our God-self and freedom from self inflicted suffering. Our God-self has absolutely nothing to do with religion. If we remove the accusing, the blaming, the judgments of what we find from the act of cheating because of misalignment.
Cheating would not take place if genuine love is consistently present, and the cheater is experiencing inadequacies in themselves. Which personally has nothing to do with the other person, even though we would love to make them responsible for our hurt feelings? An ego-less relationship is one in which you are constantly aware of the ownership and responsibility of your own emotional ego. Choosing an ego-less relationship is choosing love over fear.
Transparency is the backbone of an ego-less relationship. No walls, no bars, no locks, and absolutely no pointing fingers. Therefore no miss communications; everything you feel is yours, everything they feel is theirs, therefore no miss communications.
In my perspective love is so vast that it allows me space to support my partner [or family member, or friend, or… ] through her karmic issues, especially if that means working me out of her system, as she will with me.
All paths lead to God, and karma is the block that falls across that path. So the love I feel for her, is that deep spiritual love and need to help her overcome that block. In the same sense I have this inner devotion for myself to overcome the karma that has been presented. A karmic relationship is where our unbalanced ego has gotten involved in our interactions with our lover. Jealousy is karma, and ego provides that experience.
The reason for life on Earth is to learn to transcend ego, and step into God or intuitive awareness or no matter what that is for you. Ending a karmic relationship means that you connect to the beautiful and unique YOU; as in coming into alignment with our higher-self or god-self, and in a profound way that wants you to be the master of your own direction.
Only you can truly see you, and only you can truly know what you need. When we put the responsibility on someone to provide for us, we have created a situation that will fail, and drama is the result. Be in love with someone because they are fun to be with, and not because they complete you. ONLY you can complete you. So in this, karma shows us what is illusion and what is truth, the illusion is made to be a difficult path to follow, and the truth is made to be easy. So pay close attention to those things that come easily into alignment for you.
However the truth of it is: Karma is a spiritual language to describe the process of growing into God. The only one that can love you more than life itself is God, and because his love is not physical we search for it in other people. And karma is here to teach that there is only God. The only true validation comes from The Loving Spirits. When we seek validation in people, what we get is a projection from their emotional life experiences.
This is divinely designed to not ever match your truth.